My clients include disabled as well as able-bodied people. I have never made a distinction. If you have sexual feelings that you want to share or explore, I am more than happy to join you. Sex and disability is a subject very close to my heart and I know that sometimes, those who don’t ‘appear’ to be fully able are often considered asexual. I know that nothing could be further from the truth. If you're in full-time care, receiving domiciliary care, or you have a condition classed as a disability, you're welcome to contact me.
Please call me to discuss your needs. I am not easily shocked and I won’t be embarrassed by anything you tell me, whether it’s to do with your situation, or your sexual preferences. Don’t let the fear of rejection hold you back. I am a very experienced listener and I will reassure you as best I can about how we can be together in a sexual situation. I promise you will be safe and held in a loving and confidential space. However, if you want cheekiness and sexiness, that can most definitely be arranged too! Also, the presence of your PA, if needed, will present no hindrance to our meeting at all. And nothing has to happen if you don’t want it to. Our journey can be as slow and as gentle as you wish.
I am very patient and understanding and will always be considerate of your needs. If you have a disability that prevents you from experiencing sensation to areas of your body, then I will, with the greatest of pleasure, explore all of your body for erogenous areas, to find out where your pleasurable feelings can be found, perhaps through gentle caresses (some call it Tantric massage). These often develop in new places following acquired disability, or perhaps, nobody’s taken the time to look for them before. It’s great fun looking for them! It requires you to be open to being stimulated, sensually treated and pampered, and willing to tune into your responses, the sensations provoked, and feelings aroused. Perhaps you would prefer me to assist you with masturbation? If that's the case, I would be more than happy to help.
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How about grooming? Whether you’re male, female, gay, or a cross-dresser, if you would like help with shaving (anywhere on your body), it can be very erotic (or not – your choice) and I’m extremely gentle. How about painting toenails and fingernails, make up, skin preparation, using wigs? I'm more than delighted to assist! We could really have some fun with it. But only if that’s what you want. Perhaps it’ll help you to feel on the outside like the person you feel inside; your true-self. Or maybe it’ll give you the confidence you’ve wanted, to enable you to approach a potential lover...
I have no boundaries with age, but for sexual services only, I am happy to see males or females, from age 35, with no upper age limit. I don’t have a premises, so meeting at a hotel, your home, or place of residence, should be arranged please.
Please know that I would always ask before any physical contact to ensure I have your consent, and I respect your right to change your mind at any moment.
For other help and information on sex and disability, please look at these links:
A user-led charity aiming to educate people of all ages about disability as well as assist those with a disability in playing a full and active role in society.
Providing disability counselling, support and groups for people with physical disabilities, their partners and health professionals.
Online sex shop selling accessible sex aids to help people with mobility, dexterity and sensation issues.
Outsiders offers opportunities for people who are struggling to meet people with whom they can form close and/or intimate relationships.
TLC Trust provides opportunities, advice and support to disabled men and women so they can find appropriate sexual and therapeutic services.